What is the Cyber bullying

First of all, cyberbullying has been an add-on form to digital devices such as smartphones, laptops and tablets for years. Beyond that, cyberbullying can be done via text messages, texts, and apps, or online in social media, forums, or games where people can view, participate in, or share content. In other words, cyberbullying can include threatening and sending provocative insults, homosexuality, and sharing negative, harmful or despicable content with others.

First personal experience of cyberbullying happened in my secondary school

I am sharing my personal experience and I was bullied online in middle school. In addition, when I was about 14 or 15 years old, I was bullied by friends and called Alvin. So when he knew that one day I was reading this, he often wrote horrible things about me online, and then he even wrote even worse things, and he said I want you to fall from the earth to die and post on Facebook then, he wanted me to lose face in front of my classmates until now, and I will still remember it forever, but everyone can read what he said to me on Facebook. Next, I know that everyone thinks the same about me. Therefore, I couldn’t get rid of the trouble of being online, I had to calculate the actual distance from school to him literally.

I know that one day I eventually left my friendship group. When I first came home, I would tell my parents that I was bullied by a friend, and my parents told me to stay away from the Internet to block his contact to avoid the same thing.

Second personal experience of cyberbullying on facebook

According to this picture, I have experienced being bullied by others. When I first saw my first blog being commented as bad on Facebook, I was very scared and uncomfortable, and I was afraid that others would be constantly attacked and insulted me. When others read my blog, I would be misunderstood and I feel very scared and I posted it on my blog due to his comments. Furthermore, I immediately took action to blocked this person’s contact and reported and he was no longer in my Facebook contact.

Cause of cyberbullying

In addition, many bullies are using multiple methods to threaten people on social media, such as insulting others, sending offensive messages to harmful people, sending sensitive photos without our permission, leaving comments, and making comments on your social media posts Bad response. In addition, we can also notice that cyberbullying poses a huge threat to society. If the bully takes this action, people will feel very scared and uncomfortable. It can be said that when people feel scared and uncomfortable, it may cause great and major emotions, such as depression, distress, and they may also do unexpected things to hurt themselves and commit suicide.

From these data, it can be seen that there are four online platforms, such as Facebook, Instagram, Whatsapp, Twitter. In addition, the figure above shows two differences based on this figure. Because the blue column is for all young people who use it most on the platform. For orange column, the percentage targeted by cyberbullyers and try them on the platform. from this table, we can see that Instagram is the highest percentage used by all young people, not the other three online social media platforms. In addition, the second largest online platform used by young people is Facebook, but the proportion of young people who are bullied online is 70%. Next is whatsapp, which is the third largest platform used by young people and accounts for 50% of cyberbullyers on the platform. Moreover, the last online platform is twitter, which is rarely used by many people and not many people are bullied on the platform. In nuthell, these two highest online platforms are facebook and instagram, but it can be said to be very insecure social media, because these two platforms have grown by 70% and 85% respectively among 100% of young people.

Ways to overcome cyberbullying

If you are the target of a cyberbully, please don’t nervous and fear, you can overcome it by following these methods below that i have provided

-never respond to the message by cyberbullies
-screenshot dialogue with cyberbullies and report to the police.
-seek for help hotline ( t: +60 3 7956 8144 | 7956 8145 | e: sam@befrienders.org.my)

How to stop the cyberbullying

Similarly, the first way to stop Cyber bullying is to not respond to bullying messages. For example, when people want to find trouble to you, first they turn to attacks using Facebook, Twitter, and other social media, which hurts and insults you. Therefore, if you cannot speak directly, please do not reply directly to the text messages, instant messages, emails or other communications you receive from the bully. So why bullies want to hurt people, it’s because bullies want to fight back from their goals, and if we fight back the text, it only makes things worse. The best thing to do is to stay silent and disconnect from the Internet.

Also, the second way to stop Cyber bullying is to block all communication with Cyber bullies. For example, when you feel your child is being harassed by a bully, we should immediately tell them to stop communicating with those bullies. Another way to keep them safe is to delete information from email contacts and prevent them from entering social networks. Beyond that, we can seek privacy settings on social media sites to ensure that bullies no longer interact with your children online.

Hence, the third way to stop Cyber bullying is to Avoid sharing sensitive personal information online. for example, do not take an explicit photo and posted on Facebook and Instagram this is because all this social media are public platform this will lead many bully to attack and tease to drop a bad comment on your blog .

Conclusion

In summary, although the Internet and mobile phone communication systems make our lives easier and play a very important role in our lives, people have been misusing the social media and phone. It has become a poison and creating many keyboard warriors in the cyber bullying.

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During my time at INTI International university, I studied a diploma in business course since 2017. I want to share my experience with everyone because I have spent more than two years more than most of my friends.

This is because my English is poor and I needed to quickly improve my English to catch up with my classmates. Therefore, most of the time is spent in our classes, each class is 2 hours long, from 9 am to 5 pm, and sometimes the classes last until 6 pm, which makes me tired. Therefore, if the class ends early, I will have enough time to rest and chat with my friends.

Other than that, most of my friends started as early as 8 am and there were times I was running late, well you can’t imagine arriving there at 8 am when from the hostel to the university campus is an 8-minute walk and you would have to wake up at 7.30 am, right? Ha-ha. Coincidentally, INTI’s classrooms are quite far away from the restaurants and shops and we were too lazy to wait for the bus or take a cab. Hence, I have decided to drive my car to campus.

When my friends and I were too lazy to walk, we went to class by car and I knew that someone would say that we were lazy bones, but this would save time and we would be able to attend class on time without being scolded by the lecturer.

Facilities

Accomodation

However, I live in Gandhi (G) block single room on the INTI accomodation grounds. As far as I know, this hostel is located in the INTI area and is guarded, but there is no curfew, so there is no rush to get back to the hostel. If I am not mistaken there are 19 blocks from A-S, with block A being the nearest from university and S being the furthest. Furthermore, every block and each floor they have provided a large common washroom with heaters in a few of them, also provided is an area for washing and hanging clothes to all the students. Not only that, but INTI also provided us a wide study area to let us study and relax.

Library

Next is the library facilities. I really like INTI’s library resources as they are very satisfying because they have all the resources from textbooks, computers, discussion rooms, printed materials  sound and video recordings available to students.

Sidewalk Cafe and Printing Center

Next is the sidewalk cafeteria. My friends and I always go there for lunch because they have a variety of food stalls for all students and lecturers. For example, they offer different kinds of food like Nasi Lemak, Rendang chicken , Nasi Goreng ,fried chicken and beverages and so on. Besides that,the sidewalk cafe price is always cheaper than outside foods stall because they offer student price to the students.Next, there is a printing center under the sidewalk cafe for general photo printing and printing and their price is quite reasonable.

Environment

Also, INTI Nilai is beautiful, nice, quiet and remote, serene and conducive environment to complete your pre-U studies. Not so many things will be happening here at INTI IU. Honestly, students will generally get along with each other to discuss their assignments and solve task problems together. The lectures are very friendly, they will always help us when facing assignment problems, and the lecturers will take time to explain it to us step by step. Other than that, INTI’s commitment to a green environment is rooted in a tree planting ceremony on campus, which also marks the beginning of a week-long series of environmental protection activities involving its students and faculty.

In a nutshell, I would strongly recommend INTI university as it would bring a lot of benefits to all students. Here at INTI, they are not just about results, students’ well being and happiness comes first. INTI lecturer always make sure that every student in the class is participating and thus, is never left out. It is this inclusiveness that sets INTI apart from their competitors.

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